Think about what you really want others to experience and feel about your wedding speech. The goal here is to come up with what the main message of the speech will be. This is the core of your groom speech. A good advice is to write your speech without paying attention to the length. Think of this as a paper brainstorming session where you get to put all your ideas down. Then, what you would do is, revise this draft version until you have reduced it to its essence. This will likely be the main message you need to communicate. Make sure to include this in the top, the middle and the bottom of your groom speech.

It is often a good idea to have 3 sub themes during a speech. usually, you will find that it is beneficial to convey these 3 main topics to your audience at the beginning of your speech. This will create a consistent flow during your wedding speech which others will appreciate. Your speech will seem to have a solid base and the main categories will serve as anchor points throughout your delivery.

Include as many relevant stories and anecdotes as possible. These bits of factual data will help reinforce your message and will serve as anchors on your speech. it will help you remember your wedding speech should you decide to memorize it rather than reading it. Start by writing down all the stories and facts you remember and would like to include. Then go through the list and only keep the most powerful ones that will really add value and context to your message

Be natural! that is probably the best advice, and if you are not going to do anything else, remember this one. Be Natural. A good trick to give the impression you are natural is to use some cue cards. However, be careful here, don’t go crazy and think you can just write the whole speech and start reading! Do not do this, instead use cue card for their real purpose. And this is to boost your brain and provide a path to follow during your wedding speech.

if there is something you could do to master the art of wedding speeches, it is definitely to practice it. This can be done alone, with a friend or with an audio recording device. now a good solution could be to use your computer to do this. Nowadays most computers will allow you to do this and trust me this trick alone with explode your speech delivery results. Please don’t do what others are likely to do. Don’t think you can just rock in on the day hoping you will be fine. These events are too important. instead do a little effort and be prepared.

Stay cool and relax. I know you are probably stressed about it, actually that is a good thing. We all get a bit stressed before delivering a speech, this is normal and a sign that we care. use this energy to focus on what you need to do and take action. On the hour before the event, try to release some of the energy by doing body movements that show strength. Do some push ups, jumping jacks or fist pump, whatever works for you. 15 minutes before the delivery just take some time to go over your outline one more time.